Tuesday, December 30, 2008
But I'm so glad that I took this road. Blogging has been a wonderful way to record the events (and not-so-eventful) moments of our life this past year. It has been a great form of cheap therapy for this slackermom to be able to come hear and talk about what is on my mind...or what has been on my TV. If it weren't for blogging, I might not have ever picked up Twilight! Imagine that!!!
So as we wind down this year and get ready to march forward into 2009, I am thinking what will my blog become? I've been neglecting it lately but I haven't really had much to share. Maybe this new year will find me expressing more about my faith. Or maybe I'll just continue with these mind boggling posts that I know have you thinking ... "and SHE wants to teach the leaders of tomorrow? You have GOT to be kidding me!"
What about you? What's on your 'To DO" list for 2009? Making resolutions? Setting goals? Getting serious about anything? Be sure to tune in later ... I'll reveal my list eventually. I like making lists....it's the sticking to them that's a little easier said than done.
Until the next time. Be blessed to be a blessing in the lives that you touch. May God keep you and yours safe as we venture into 2009.
Thursday, December 25, 2008
We try each year to go to a local church and enjoy their Christmas Pageant. This was performed this past year during the 'intermission' of sorts.
This Christmas has been incredible...if you don't factor in the fact that it has been warm and rainy today. We awoke this morning, to our first holiday where the truth about Santa has been revealed, and opened presents. Everyone seemed very happy with their gifts and then later we loaded up and drove to my parents house to have Christmas with them and my sister's family.
In closing, I want to extend an invitation to you. I would like to ask you to watch the following video...it is a performance to Lifehouse's Everything. So often at this time of the year, we wonder where the spirit of Christmas has gone. I find myself even feeling the same way - especially this year. But last night at the Christmas Eve service at church our beloved minister said it was important that we remember that Jesus Christ was not born so that we could celebrate His birth - He was born so that you and I could celebrate Easter.I pray that the spirit of the season is with you today and everyday. Be blessed to be a blessing dear ones!
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
I finished up my classes last week - and got my grades on Monday. I somehow managed to pull an A in my Biology class and a high B in Astronomy. Miracles of the season if you ask me. Those were two really hard classes to take at the same time. I've also been accepted to a college where i will finish my final 15 months and be well on my way to teaching! I have to go to meet with an advisor on Thursday at their main campus and will attend classes at one of the more local campuses so that will be nice for the gas budget around here!
Almost finished with the Christmas shopping as I just have a few things to pick up. I feel like I am racing against the clock this year. The local school lets the kids out starting Friday so I really need to make sure I've gotten everything under control by then. My Dad is having some health issues with his artificial valve and it has made this holiday season a little bit harder on all of us.
I will try to check in more often with everyone at least until my next round of classes. Until then, I wish you one and all a Merry Christmas. :)
Saturday, December 6, 2008
I have a question though for any of you who have purchased trampolines. What kind do you have? Size? Springs? Any thoughts on it in general? Darling Daughter wants one... so I am trying to gather all the information that I might need.
Thanks. Hope you're having a wonderful day.
Monday, November 24, 2008
I thought it was great. I think the casting was great and now I'm excited to find out that Summit Entertainment is in talks to produce New Moon...ah! More Twilighty goodness :)
BTW, I think I still have claw marks on my arm from when The Doodlebug attacked me when "Edward" walked onto the scene. And you should have heard the lady sitting behind us -she had me in stitches! All in all, I'm glad that we saw it. I'm glad that I had read the books beforehand, too. In a word :A W E S O M E !
And with that, I'll bid you all a goodnight. Enjoy your Gobble Gobble this week. And thank you all for your continued prayers. I really do appreciate them. Hopefully I'll be around a little more frequently.
Saturday, November 8, 2008
School has gotten a lot harder. I've lost 30 pounds since I started my 'diet' about a month and a half ago. I am still having a hard time with some personal issues so if you don't hear from me, know that I try to check in and read about once a week. My heart and brain are just distracted elsewhere. But I know that if God brought me to it, he will bring me through it, right?
Please continue to tell the important people in your life just exactly how much they mean to you.
Monday, November 3, 2008
I hope this message finds you all feeling relaxed and ready for the upcoming holiday season. We had a great Halloween here. My parents came down and gave out candy while we went trick-or-treating. Sadly, there were not a lot of kids out in our neighborhood. I think it's odd that some years we have A LOT of kids and others, it's like a slow drip.
Friday, October 24, 2008
Thursday, October 23, 2008
The Doodlebug got her report card - apparently earlier this week - and only remembered when I asked about it when I picked her up from school. Not that she had anything to hide. She made all As - which is great...and what I generally expect from her. Not that I'd freak out over anything else...at least I don't think that I would freak out. She's still enjoying the social aspects of middle school. Stalker Boy seems to have moved on...which is a good thing. He has another class for his connection in the afternoon so she doesn't have to see him. All in all, things are going well.
The UIC is busy winding down the fall ball season around here. I will be glad when it's over and done. Two nights this week The Doodlebug and I have loaded dinner into the Momstermobile and met him at the ball park so that we get some family time together. It's been nice - and definately a change of pace for all of us. Tonight we met him with chili from Wendy's - because it is cold and windy here. We sat in my car and ate and talked. All in all, a nice time.
I actually worked today at The Doodlebug's old school. Again, it was nice...but strange. At least I've met my 2 days a semester minimum so that I will remain on the active list. Tomorrow is yet ANOTHER quiz in Astronomy followed by The Doodlebug having a doctor's appointment for a round of shots. FUN! This weekend I have to get serious about finishing up her halloween costume. I'm not sure how it's all going to turn out, so I think we need this time in case we have to turn to plan C. In other words, there are not going to be any vampires or genies at our house this halloween. If it all turns out, I'll post a picture soon...
We are getting more excited about Twilight being released next month... The Doodlebug has acquired a poster for her bedroom that she wants to put up this weekend. And a calendar. And a "Team Edward" pin. Crazy. But fun. I'm just so so so happy to see her enjoying reading after all the drama involved with reading in the past years.
So, what are your plans for the weekend? Doing anything exciting???? Do share....
Sunday, October 19, 2008
In this world that we live in today, do you believe that it is possible to still hold on to the idea of the "American Dream"? Or do you think that the downturn of the economy (for the past few years actually) is causing more and more people to reevaluate what they actually think the American Dream really is?
Has your idea of the American Dream become something unobtainable? What are your 'goals' involved in obtaining the American Dream? Check my comments - I'll share my opinions there.
Hope you're having a great and relaxing Sunday in your corner of our universe. Be blessed...and be a blessing!
Friday, October 17, 2008
Just a few things that I learned at my Dr's visit a few weeks ago where I asked him to address the fact that I am having a hard time losing weight.
- Drink 8 glasses of water a day. Don't skip on this. It'll help you feel full and also flush your system. Water gives you healthier looking skin. Believe me.... water is a good thing! And if you're like me and you have any of those plastic tumblers around that Walmart sells in the summer months, one of those equals 3 servings of water...I measured it. So gulp, gulp, gulp away.
- Try to get in 30 minutes of exercise each morning. Whether you walk, jog, ride a bike...but 30 minutes! Every day... no holidays or weekend breaks allowed. This helps you to do two things: You'll get your exercise out of the way for the day AND you're metabolism will get a kick start that will help you throughout your day.
- Try to evenly spread out your meals. Right now I'm living by the 7/12/6 idea. That means, I have breakfast at 7, lunch around 12 and then at 6, we have dinner. Of course, I have to adjust this schedule on school days and nights, but so far, it seems to be working for me.
And there you have it - Slacker Tips for Dieting. LOL That sounds funny to me. But apparently this is working...my favorite (means most comfortable) blue jeans are getting baggy. I can feel the changes in my body... but I'm not weighing myself until the end of the month. I don't want to jinx it and become a weighing-obsessed momster.
Here's wishing you all a wonderful weekend. Tell someone how much you love them...it's something we all love to hear.
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
Did you know that 52% of your power bill is for heating and cooling your home? With everything going up thanks to the soaring gas prices at the pump, I wanted to share with you the following energy efficiency tips.
- Set your thermostats to 78 degrees in the summer and 68 in the winter. Each degree higher than 70° F can increase heating costs by 1-3%, and each degree below 78° F can increase cooling costs by 3-5% or more. We have a programable thermostat and love it. I can adjust the temperature in the house for the hours that we are not at home so that we can save more money and also have it programmed to be cooler when it's time for us to return. If you have a heat pump though it is best to check the manufacturer's recommendations before installing a programmable thermostat.
- Properly insulate your attic, walls and floors. Did you realize that the purpose of insulation is to resist heat either trying to come into your home in the summer or trying to get out in the winter? Generally power companies recommend R-30 for the attic, R-19 for the floors, and R-13 for your walls. But make sure you check your local building codes - just use whichever one is higher.
- Make use of those storm windows or double-paned replacement windows. In researching ways to save money, did you realize that if you have the single-pane windows, in addition to not providing great insulation value and resistance to heat flow that a lot of these windows also have metal frames, which conduct heat - that's right. They bring heat into the home in the summer and force it out of the home in the winter.
- It's important to make sure there are no gaps around your home's ductwork. This can cause your heating and cooling bills to increase by as much as 30%! It also allows air contaminants to enter your home. The best way to fix this problem is by sealing them with duct mastic.
- Have your heating and cooling systems professionally serviced once a year to keep them in tip-top shape. If you have an old system, consider having it replaced with a more efficient system.
- Check your refrigerator and freezer for any significant energy loss. Make sure they are as full as possible and that the seals are in good condition. Don't put refrigerators or freezers in unconditioned garages if possible.
- Switch to high effieciency Energy Star qualified compact fluorescent bulbs. They last up to 10 times longer than the traditional light bulb and they operate at cooler temperatures. We have even replaced all of the bulbs in our hallway lights with these - they are great.
- Change your filters once a month during the heating and cooling seasons. If you use pleated filters, change them at least every three months.
- Wrap electric water heaters in an insulated blanket. Make sure that you read all of the directions from the manufacturer.
- Check the caulk and weatherstripping around your doors and windows. If the caulk is cracked or the stripping is flat or peeling, replace it.
Now why not head over the Rocks In My Dryer and see what other tips bloggers are sharing today?
Monday, October 13, 2008
So here are the instructions:
Go to your sixth picture folder.
Pick your sixth picture.
Try to remember the details.
Tag 5 others, leave a comment to let them know they’ve been tagged.
Ah, the face on an angel. This is The Doodlebug in her younger, wilder years...letting us know what she thinks. She the intent expression on her face? It's probably because Daddy was getting ready to make her put on some shoes.
Shoes? We don't need shoes! And socks? What are these, some new torture device? Are you people crazy?Yes, that's exactly how I remember it.
So let the fun begin. I'm going to take The Source, Scrappy Girl and Jo. Can't wait to see your six-in-six.
Sunday, October 12, 2008
Anyway, she was filling me in on what's been going on and I was doing the same. She was telling me about a friend of hers who is having some marital problems (remember, I am like Lucy from the Peanuts...the doctor is in) and she asked me if I thought an emotional affair is worse than a physical one? That's an interesting question....and I do have an opinion on this one.
See, I think if a man is involved in an emotional affair it is far worse than a physical one. I can remember being young and being talked to in the youth group at church (well high school to college age) and the speaker said that boys will use 'love' for nooky (gotta watch the potty mouth) and a girl will use nooky for 'love'. I think that men can easily detach that emotional aspect from a relationship if they are only after the physical side. But I believe if they are attached emotionally, then it is far worse. So, in short...yes, I believe an emotional relationship is much worse.
But this got me thinking on my drive back the house...and mind you, I'm all jacked up on Caramel coffee goodness....but what do you think? Care to leave a comment...curious minds want to know.
Friday, October 10, 2008
Thursday, October 9, 2008
Tuesday, October 7, 2008
But I've found a way to tame the mail monster. I am the person who usually checks the mail these days, but if someone else in the house checks it, they know to let me know where it's at. Usually while I'm trying to debunk that myth about watching a boiling pot, I stand over the trash can and sort through the mail. I trash anything that's not necessary. I open all of the utility bills and things of that nature and put them together with their corresponding envelope. And the guess what? I use my napkin holder to sort the mail! That way, when it's time to sit down and work on the budget, I have everything I need in one convenient spot.
It works for me. To read other ideas go over to Rocks in My Dryer.
No, I didn't duck tape their mouths, even though if I had a roll of it in my bag, that's what I would have done. Instead I leaned past my friend and said the ringleader's name. We'll call him Big Mouth. We had a brief conversation about his behavior, the fact that he was getting on my nerves, not to mention Dr. Astronomy's and that enough was enough. I think he was shocked. But you know, he didn't talk anymore during class. Dr. Astronomy then proceeded to share with us the rest of the information that we needed.
Did I feel a little guilty about doing this? (I didn't yell ... I spoke in a low voice, but I'm sure Big Mouth knew exactly what I was talking about...) Yeah, a little bit. I mean, it's not my place to interfere. I don't want to be thought of as the "Mom" in the room. But there's a time and place for everything. When you can see someone is becoming upset with a certain behavior, you nip it in the bud. And I'm not driving down there to be entertained with the current state of gas prices and our economy. He can go and be a clown somewhere else.
See what fun and interesting things I encounter at school? I still feel bad about being lumped into a class where we have more behavior issues than anything else. Dr. Astronomy often times looks exhausted after an hour with us. I am ready for this semester to end. To get out of these classes so that I can start focusing on my intended major coursework and hopefully avoid the goofballs like Big Mouth. This isn't what I had planned on writing about today, but it is really bothering me so I have to get it out of my head.
Ah, but tomorrow is yet another hour spent in Astronomy prison. I feel like I'm doing hard time...
Monday, October 6, 2008
I really don't remember how old I was when I started wearing makeup. I do think that I was wearing mascara in the 6th grade. I'm extremely fair - with light hair. My eye lashes seem to be invisible if I don't have some mascara on. I can remember when I was allowed to venture into the world of eye liner. I remember discovering what shades of lipstick worked with my coloring and what was the best blush selection for me. Foundations have always been a funny thing. Even with a tan, I seem to still qualify for one of the light ivory shades.
Since The Doodlebug is full of inquiry into the world of makeup, I thought I'd toss the question out to those of you who visit my blog. When do you think it's a good time to let girls start wearing makeup? Do you remember how old you were when you started wearing it yourself?
I don't know about you ... but there are days when I cringe at the idea of having to put the very minimal on to go somewhere. Maybe now would be a good time to go for a makeover!
Leave us a comment and help us settle this once and for all. Take a minute to vote in the poll in the right hand column as well. And as always, thank you for playing along with The Momster.
Sunday, October 5, 2008
While reading Scrappy Girl's blog yesterday I noticed she had been to a scrapbooking party. It inspired me to dig out a lot of my 'stuff' and sort through it. So I carried a majority of it to the living room and settled in the floor. I watched Rumor Has It and Mr. and Mrs. Smith while I made stacks related to different holidays or events. I have discovered that I have a lot of stuff that is too babyish for the tweener world we have entered. So...
For my Chore Of the Week I am going to tackle my scrapbook stuff. I need to get more organized. I need to weed out the stuff that I'm not going to use and organize what's left over. It's amazing when you sit down to look at all the stuff covering the living room floor and think about how much money you've spent on stuff that you are not using. I am also going to check with The UIC to see if he will go ahead and put shelves in the closet up here (since the shelf broke recently...from my putting too much stuff in there!) so that I can organize everything so that I know where it all is at. And then I can shut the doors and the family room can stay scrapbooking litter free.
What about you? Got a project you need to tackle? Come on and join me... :)
Saturday, October 4, 2008
Friday, October 3, 2008
- The little things are often your undoing. Two cups of coffee, each with two lumps of sugar and two tablespoons of cream, add up to 292 calories. Two cups with no-calorie sweetener and nondairy cream provide only 22 calories - more than a 10-fold difference. Be alert for high-count, sneaky calories you can easily avoid.
- With every decade past your 30th birthday, calorie requirements drop by about 10 percent. If at 40 you're still eating exactly as you were at 20, don't be surprised by the bulges. Unless you're exceptionally active, you'll have to cut back as you get older just to stay even.
- It's always a battle between the goops and the crisps. All the lovely gooey things - butter, cream, mayonnaise, salad oil, ice cream, gravies, etc.... have calorie multipliers in the hundreds, while the crisps - celery, radishes, cucumbers, lettuce, dill pickles (not the rugrat!), are low in calories; you can eat almost unlimited amounts and never notice. In fact, if you reject the goops in favor of the crisps, you may not have to do any other dieting.
And that is why I am known as Ms. Randomness around here. I like little facts like these :) Enjoy your Fitness Friday!
Seriously, I am reading "Dear John" by Nicholas Sparks. Let me just say...Oh My Goodness! I found myself in tears today while sitting in the car rider line at the middle school. I'm about half way through the novel. I love Mr. Sparks writing, even though very few of his characters have a happy ending.
Have you read it? Do you like Nicholas Sparks' work? When I finish this, I have Nights in Rodanthe to start next. I think there's another Sparks novel out in the van as well. I'm utilizing the public library :)
What are you reading?
Wednesday, October 1, 2008
So, in order to do play along, I get to share some more stuff about me with you...seven things actually, so here goes....
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
I believe - That a birth certificate shows that we were born; a death certificate shows that we died; pictures show that we lived!
I believe - That just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other, and just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.
I believe - That we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.
I believe - That no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
I believe - That true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.
I believe - That you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.
I believe - That it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.
I believe - That you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.
I believe - That you can keep going long after you think you can't.
I believe - That we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
I believe - That either you control your attitude or it controls you.
I believe - That heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.
I believe - That money is a lousy way of keeping score.
I believe - That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up.
I believe - That sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
I believe - That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.
I believe - That it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others, sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
I believe - That no matter how bad your heart is broken, the world doesn't stop for your grief.
I believe - That our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.
I believe - Two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.
I believe - That your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.
I believe - That even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you - you will find the strength to help.
I believe - That credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.
I believe - That the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.
I believe - That the happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
Monday, September 29, 2008
2. You need to have 4 to 5 days a week of cardio. Do it in intervals...4 minutes of high intensity followed by 2 minutes of rest. Doing so will burn more calories and then you'll burn 66% more fat the next time you work out! Cool!!!!
3. Standing for 1 hour a day will help you burn 100 extra calories.
4. There's been a study done that suggests the more meat you eat, the more likely you are to be overweight. The solution? Eat like a vegetarian 3 days a week for a month.
5. Keep a diary of what you eat - and do so online. The accountability is incredible and you'll also be able to analyse your progress.
Just wanted to share these tips... remember, no pain, no gain :)
Sunday, September 28, 2008
I have enough gas to make it to and from school tomorrow. Then I foresee that I will probably panic. I think I might try my luck much later tonight...in hopes that all the people are at home watching TV. But who knows? I'm going to ask my professor tomorrow if I can go ahead and turn in my lab that is due on Tuesday, just in case. He's the one who frequently mentions this mess about gas. I mean, I'm certainly not going to drive that far for a 50 minute class only to turn around and come back to the house. So we'll see...
I hope to post some pictures from our museum exploration this week. We had such a good time. I only wish that the museum here was bigger. It makes me want to take The Doodlebug to DC to the Smithsonian.
So I'm off to an afternoon of laundry and studying. Doesn't that sound like fun?
Saturday, September 27, 2008
The Doodlebug is a good kid. She's truly one of a kind. She has a great sense of humor. She's affectionate and considerate and delightful to be around most of the time. We've all lived in this little bubble here at home for eleven years. But things are changing and the person who is having the hardest time adjusting seems to be... The UIC.
Where I sit and marvel at the changes in our daughter, just in the last year. I think he resents a lot of it. Because these changes have somehow changed their relationship. He feels left out. They've always been like playmates. Video games. Funny movies. Amusement park rides. She's changing...and he's got issues.
I think I noticed the first change this past summer. They used to go to some local races on Thursday nights. It was their thing...like a date. But this past summer she decided she really didn't want to do that anymore. Lately he has been pointing out more things...like she doesn't like for him to kiss her on the tip of her nose anymore. She acts like he has cooties apparently. And he's having a hard time dealing with this ... because he sees that she and I are getting closer.
I'm trying to see his perspective. I mean, did I feel a little left out when they went off to do their 'fun stuff' together? Probably, yes. But at the same time, I am loving the evolving relationship that she and I are developing. We are really enjoying our time together. We do our nails. We shop. I finally have someone to do all that 'girly' stuff with. We giggle while watching movies together. We talk about music. I listen to her. Something that I can always remember appreciating my mother doing for me when I was growing up. Sometimes we just want to be heard, right? A sounding board....
My relationship with my Dad was awkward during my teen years because I sought out my Mom's opinion more than Daddy's. The UIC and his sister grew up without a true father figure, so he has nothing to draw on for experience in this situation. I told him not to be so abrupt with her. To listen to her. To not criticize her musical taste. Ask her questions but to not be pushy. When she wants to talk, no matter what he is doing, give her the time and really listen. Get to know the person she is becoming. To try to let their relationship evolve without being so forceful. But his feelings are hurt and I swear, earlier he was pouting like a little kid about the entire thing. I did tell him that he was acting like a 'grump'...a term that she had used to describe him not 20 minutes earlier.
So we'll sit back and watch what evolves over the next few weeks...months...or years. But what about you? Do you remember those odd years with either of your parents? Have you experienced this with your own children? Got any sage advice to share? I'm all ears....
Friday, September 26, 2008
My Mom called earlier. She wanted to know if I would like to go and have all of my arteries scanned for blockages. What? Seems there's something going on at one of the local churches next month where you can have this done. I don't know how I feel about this. I mean, do I want to know that there's a problem with me before it becomes a big problem? I think she could tell I was a little put off. I know we have a family history (with my Dad) but I'm still young enough (at least in my mind) that I don't want to have to worry about this right now. Anybody got an opinion on this one???? Please?
I've been trying harder lately to keep in touch with my sister. She works at a Dr's office in town. I hardly ever see her, really only at the holidays and stuff like that. She's 10 + years older than I am. She was a stay at home mom for probably 23 years and she went back to school so that she could work in a Dr's office. I've been consciously making myself email her. She wants to discuss our parents' anniversary party. She has the same concerns about it as I do. This is usually her forte, hence my recent panic about the entire thing.
Today I'm really in a funk. I think it has to do with my astronomy class. He started throwing theorems at us today. Do you realize how long it's been since I've had to worry about those? I think it was 1985. I'm just really praying that by God's grace I can maintain a B in this class until December 11th. I have a 'take home' quiz that is due at exactly 11 am on Monday morning. Fun fun fun.
The Doodlebug and I are going to watch Penelope tonight. Maybe do our nails. Experiment with her hair since it's growing out. I think I need to invest in a good straightener for her hair now. She has such thick hair! She wants to let it grow out some and get it layered (towards her face). She is growing up so very, very fast. Part of me loves it because we have such a good time together and the other part of me...well, is sad. Sad because I have realized lately she isn't hugging her penguin, Kelly, when I go in to check on her at night. She is growing up. Each day she changes before my eyes.
I think I should end here and go vacuum.... what? Did I actually say that???? Good grief!
Thursday, September 25, 2008
Another quiz tomorrow in Astronomy. We all have our fingers crossed that he'll make it a take home. Found out that I can't start the program that I had hoped in January...at least not at the school closest to the house...so it's back to the drawing board. I just couldn't wrap my brain around that one today. Saturday we are going to our annual museum day. The Doodlebug really is looking forward to this. I think we'll visit a few of the malls around 'the city' while we are there.
We are still debating what to do for Halloween. Speaking of that, The Source at Not A Significant Source is taking a poll on what to dress their 'baby' Lucy up as for Halloween...go over and share with her your opinion!
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
If you've read the books, you have to watch this parody of Twilight The Movie. We were rolling on the floor. Heck, even if you haven't read the books, watch away!
Of course, here at home everything is Twilight related. The Doodlebug is on to book 2 - just at the part where something bad's gonna happen. I told her she might want to read that part tonight - just to get it out of the way.
On a sidenote, I bought Pride and Prejudice this afternoon while making my potato chip run to the ever-hated Walmart. Can't wait to watch it when I get home from school :)
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
Someone commented today that they thought taking a year or two off after high school was a good idea. I quickly vetoed that idea. I did that. And I went to work at the airline. In a good job with exceptional benefits. And I delayed my acceptance to college because of it. For almost 7 years. Then I went back to a community college for a while. We had been married for 3 + years and living in our cute little blue house and I got pregnant. I had horrible 'morning' sickness. I finished up my semester of night classes and didn't go back. I started over again after I decided to leave the airline. It seemed like the natural procession for me. Leave my job, take my buy-out and go back to school. I did this and eventually finished with my degree in Accounting. Why I got it in accounting, I'll never know...maybe I'll add that to my list of regrets.
When I decided to go back this time, I had a short-term plan. I wouldn't need to do four years of education...I could do this quickly. Right. Technically I should be completing my year of student teaching right now. But things got in the way...like me. And now I'm shuffling threw applications to colleges to hurry up and finish my last four or five semesters. I am ready to be done. I'm ready to move on to the next phase of my life. And I am sure The UIC is just as anxious.
This college adventure is just one regret that I have. There are people that I've been friends with that I've regretted in the end. A few people that I dated that I wish I had not. Some words spoken in anger. Things I've neglected. People I've neglected. And occasionally, I realize, with regret, that I am guilty today of neglecting myself. I've regretted the time and energy that I've spent on things that have pulled me away from what should matter the most...my family. my faith. my future. But I also know that a lot of times, these things that I've regretted have a way of molding me into the person that I am today. Would I be as compassionate as I am to people if I didn't sometimes see exactly where they were coming from? I find that a part of my regret is also the part of me that makes me hopeful. Does that make any sense?
What about you? Have any regrets? Feel like regrets are opportunities to mold yourself into something better? Tell me what you think. :)
Monday, September 22, 2008
My Monday night class is always lecturing with a healthy sprinkle of class participation. She doesn't take attendance on these nights, and she doesn't give us bonus points for being there, so I decided while driving home today that I just wasn't going to go in. I was going to skip. Totally out of character. But I need to spend some time focusing on Astronomy as it is becoming more confusing...and apparently I am not alone in that assumption.
The UIC still took The Doodlebug to karate. In fact, they have just arrived back home. I have been pouring over my notes and textbook, trying to comprehend exactly what Dr. Astronomy wants us to learn. I was so frustrated after the first test that I'm just not sure what his teaching/testing style is at this point.
The weather has been cooler here, which has been an added bonus. I need to start pressuring The UIC about painting the house. We need to get a lot done outside. Like replanting shrubs. Cleaning up the islands. The change in the weather always makes me want to take on some type of project. If only I had the time!
Speaking of time, I'd better get back to the books. :)
Sunday, September 21, 2008
- Went to school Friday and got back my test. I regrettably inform you --- I got a 79. I don't think I've ever made a 79 on a test in my entire life! He took 10 points off because I got a measuring unit wrong on a math problem! Argh.
- Picked The Doodlebug up from school and went to see my parents. I'm trying to make a point of taking her by at least once during the week. Enjoyed sitting in the breakfast room and talking to my Mom and laughing because we could hear Daddy snoring in the den.
- Went to Chickfila for dinner Friday night. Or rather the drive-thru because we decided to go to the mall. And not the nearest one. But we had so much fun! Well, The Doodlebug and I did. The UIC looked like he'd rather go and have a tooth filled...
- Found her the Twilight t-shirt at Borders. Then she informed us she needed some jeans. Off to Old Navy. Gosh, she got two of the cutest pairs of jeans I've seen. One pair are those super skinny jeans like I used to wear. I love them and they look adorable on her. Picked up an Old Navy halloween tee while we were in there. A lady who I was talking to in line gave me a 20% off coupon...how cool was that???
- I could not find any jeans. Bummer. I need a new pair as all of mine are so darned faded now. I have long legs...length is always an issue. Usually I can find something at Old Navy but not then.
- Listened to my Ipod all the way home. I think that The UIC thinks we are insane. LOL He listens to mostly country music or Huey Lewis and The News! We listen to everything ....
- I have noticed The Doodlebug GIGGLES ALL THE TIME. My Mom pointed that out to me. It's a constant source of sound now.
And so that was my Friday in a nut shell. The mall was fun. The laughter with The Doodlebug was the best part though. I wish I could bottle up that feeling...
What did you do Friday night? How do you usually spend your weekends?
Friday, September 19, 2008
I'm about to head out to drive to campus. I bought one of those adapters to make my ipod play in the car, so I'm anxious to try it out on the drive. I have requested a few books on CD so until they come in I am trying to stay entertained. I think there is too much talk on morning radio. I find myself scanning stations a lot. The Doodlebug and I loaded some new songs on our ipods yesterday so I'm anxious to have a listen.
I've decided that I need to start back with keeping my food diary. I don't eat very well during the time that I'm in school. I think I consume a lot of peanut butter and jelly sandwiches in the rush...and drink too many sodas. A lot of people think that actually writing down what you eat is the first step, so that sounds like a good tip for Fitness Fridays to me.
I discovered yesterday that one of the shelves in the bonus room closet collapsed. Oh great fun...so I think that means I'll have to weed through it this weekend. There are two closets in this room...They basically take up an entire long wall and are behind two doors. I might as well try to clear them both out. The one with the problem...it has a lot of holiday stuff that was never put into the attic as well as some of our winter clothes. A ton of movies and CDs. This should be interesting. Because in all honesty...it is packed from top to bottom. Or last least it was. Now it's probably all just packed in the bottom. Argh...
Here's hoping it's a great weekend for one and all. I need to find a good book to get lost in now that I'm finished with the Twilight stories. Got any suggestions?
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
When The Doodlebug was little, I always decorated the house for all of the holidays. Fall was one of my favorites. Now granted, I'm not a big fan of the color orange...but I love it in the fall. I love the crispness of the orange, gold and burgundy leaves that litter our yard. I love the way they feel underfoot. Everything seems sharper in the fall...like there's an electrical charge in the air.
I'm thinking about pulling the fall stuff out of the attic. I want to decorate the mantel and the dining room. I'm also considering decorating the front yard again this year but I'm not sure if I have the time to really work on that.
Do you decorate for fall? and if so, when do you start?
What records to keep:
Tax returns, keep forever
Tax return documentation, for six years
Real estate records, forever
Last pay stub of a job if you leave that job
Last pay stub of the year for your current job
All mortgage payment checks (statements), until mortgage is paid off
All student loan payments, until loan is paid off
Car loan payment stubs, until the car is paid off
Cancelled checks, for 7 years
Bank deposit slips, for 7 years
Bank statements, for 7 years
Home improvement records, ownership period plus 7 years
Investment records, ownership period plus 7 years
What records to toss:
Credit card statements that are more than three years old
Past insurance statements
Old utility bills, except the most recent one from your old address if you've moved
Recently paid bills (statements), once you have something saying they've been paid
Make sure to stop by Rocks In My Dryer to see what other W4MW tips are available...
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
It's just been one of those days. I have been extremely quiet lately - not exactly sure why. I think it puzzles people though because apparently I'm a lot more accessible than I thought.
Monday, September 15, 2008
Had Biology tonight. Got back the first test we took last week. I'm happy...I got a 90, which was the highest grade at our table. I was shocked though, considering all the extra 'fun' reading I've been doing lately. This test had a lot of discussion questions. We may or may not get back our lab test on Wednesday night...so only time will tell.
Finished reading the fourth book, Breaking Dawn, from the Twilight Saga. All I am going to say is that I was a wee bit disappointed in how it all came to end. But I still enjoyed them... now I'm curious to see how the movie is going to turn out. The Doodlebug has already marked the date on her calendar. We are having a Girls Night Out apparently...which is fine with me. She's so funny, she really is a lot of fun to hang out with. It's amazing...but I think this entire middle school experience is making us closer... who would have thought that??? Plus she had a friend over this weekend and she told me later that they all like hanging out with me... which is good. Because I want my house to be the one where the kids want to hang out. I want them to feel comfortable around me. The three of us were up around 3 Saturday morning, sitting downstairs in the living room...just talking.
I've been doing some thinking about what my next step is going to be in regards to school. I'm seriously considering enrolling in a program where I would teach 4-8 grade students. I love kids of all ages, and sometimes it bothers me to exclude kindergarten or first grade from my plans, but in all honesty, I think this might be a great idea...or at least something for me to pray about and look further into. You know, maybe the problems with the other school starting their program in time for me to enroll this fall was just God's way of changing my path? I need to reflect on that a while.
Aside from that, I'll take my first astronomy exam on Wednesday. I'm thinking that mid-terms have to be coming up at some point and there's always a relief then...the semester will be almost over...yeah!
Saturday, September 13, 2008
In just the last few months, she's discovered computer graphic art. I was cleaning up the computer the other day and ran across these. She uses Paint. Wow is all I can say. I have an extremely hard time using Paint to even make a header and she has taught herself to do this!!!!
I don't think she'll mind me sharing her work... This is Cascada. She is actually just one of 5 pictures that she has taught herself how to animate. I'm quite impressed. BTW, I think Cascada is a cat.
This is Nora. Nora has four other pictures and they animate as well. I think she created this one for one of her friends.
Krystal is another animated cat.
Then she has a friend who asked her if she could draw him a picture of Scourge - I think he has something to do with the Sonic games. This is what she came up with....
And that concludes today's tour of The Doodlebug's artwork. At least the work that she has put on the computer recently. In her room, she has this huge portfolio of art ... she loves to doodle...therefore, she is truly a Doodlebug.
Friday, September 12, 2008
I had never seen a Harry Potter movie until about a month ago. Shocking, yes? Especially since I'm such a literary nut. But about a month ago, I was on our local library's website when I decided to see what movies they had available. And because The Doodlebug had been telling me how good they are... so I requested the first two. They were good. So tonight we settled in and she and I watched the 3rd and 4th movie. Now we've just got to get caught up on the rest of them. I think after I finish up the Breaking Dawn, I'm going to get her copy of the first Potter book and give it a whirl.
So what about you? Are there any movies and/or books that everybody buzzes about that you've never seen nor read?
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
Our next door neighbor got remarried sometime last year and her house stayed empty for a while. I think she's been holding on to it because a) it was a part of her last divorce settlement and b) she thought eventually her parents might retire up this way. Well, a while back her new husband's daughter and her baby and her boyfriend moved in. I think they are really young. I think they really don't get the responsibility of having to take care of a house and a yard. Not that our yards are huge, but they are a good size - and that means there's a lot of grass to cut. Needless to say...guess who's not been keeping up the lawn? But that's not even my point...I'm just painting a picture here. Yesterday when I got home from school the grass looked a little odd on the side of the driveway. I sat there for a minute and then I saw it. Someone had pulled into our driveway and driven across our side yard and was parked at their front door. I mean, I could see the indentation in the grass. It's still there today.
There was no way I planned on mentioning this to The UIC as he loves his grass and tries to take really good care of it. But I mentioned it tonight because it's been bothering me. Let's just say, he is less than pleased. I asked him not to go over and say anything. But then I started thinking...was that the right thing to do? I mean, what if they do it again? Maybe they don't get the big picture because they are living there and probably not paying rent...maybe they don't see that this is our yard and he had to work hard to cultivate the grass to grow over there where they drove their car? So... I started thinking. Should someone casually say something? What would you do in this situation?
And of course my Twilight obsession is continuing. I am now on the final book in the series. I just started it this afternoon while waiting in the car rider line at school. Reading sparks my imagination so much that I hate it when I get to the end of a book... I almost miss the people that I am reading about. The Doodlebug is enjoying the first book in the series. Several of her friends are reading it as well. I'm not sure about her reading the third book though. I told her last night I think she should wait till she's older. Now she's bugging me though - she wants a "Team Edward" shirt. Or a Twilight shirt. So now I am on the lookout. Anybody know where to buy a Twilight shirt?
Tomorrow we go in for the bracket repair on her tooth. Then tomorrow night is the dance. I don't know what she has done, but she is not being pestered by the boy in her health class anymore. And this means we have nothing to tease her about when she gets home. Aren't we bad parents??? But she's excited about tomorrow. I'm excited to have a day where I can catch up on the housework. Oh that sounds sad.
And I guess that wraps up this edition of Bloggity Stuff. Afterall, all this stuff's gotta go somewhere, right?
Tuesday, September 9, 2008
And I think that's about it. Except that Stalker A is going around and apparently telling everyone that The Doodlebug is his girlfriend. She was livid. We both had a good giggle about it after she went to bed last night. Middle school can be so much fun.
Monday, September 8, 2008
Today we are back to business. Well, except for the fact that he'll be at home. He has an appointment this afternoon with the Dr. to see if the meds are working for his cholesterol issue. I certainly hope so. It's awful that genetics can doom you from the start! Especially when you appear to be healthy as a horse!
I found out over the weekend that someone that I am very close to has decided to go see a "Fat Doctor". Her words, not mine. What are your thoughts of these kinds of establishments? I always worry... I mean, if you can't lose the weight by doing what's nutritionally right, how is a Dr. who gives you diet pills and water shots really helping the situation? He told her that in a year's time, he could have her down to 135 pounds. That just seems so unreal to me. But I guess time will tell. Again, thoughts?
The Doodlebug seems to have settled into her routine of school, karate, and homework. The boys situation is still kind of funny with her variety of stalkers. I ran into a mom last week at the grocery store who was commenting about seeing her in the rider line at school and how much she's grown up. I sometimes worry about this. Not that I'm trying to keep her in a bubble...but I always looked so much older than I was when I was her age...and the boys! This week they'll have the first dance at school and I am so proud of her. To everyone who has asked her to go, she's simply told them that she is going with a group of friends. She said she'd save them a dance. Always the diplomat!
I have my first exam in Biology tonight. It explains why I could not fall asleep last night! I kept waking up thinking what is an ionic bond or the different levels of lifeforms on Earth. Needless to say, I'll be doing a lot of studying today. Astronomy is rolling along. We have a project due in there next week that I'm slowly working through. I actually enjoy his class. The Doodlebug drew him a Tweety Bird last week so I made sure to drop it off Friday. It's funny how excited he gets about Tweety. BTW, here's the picture. I scanned it for her -so it's a little dark. What impresses me with her ability is that she just came in here and asked me for a piece of paper and drew him, from memory, in like 4 or 5 minutes.
So I wish you a fantabulous day. I'm hoping to start back with the weekly COW post next week. Right now I just have so much extra stuff going on in the world around me....
Saturday, September 6, 2008
Wow, have you ever picked up a book that you just could not put down? That is what happened to me yesterday afternoon when I grabbed my newly acquired copy of Twilight by Stephenie Meyer on the way out the door to go and pick The Doodlebug up from school. I sat in the car rider line and read for 15 minutes until the line started to move...and I was hooked. I spent the rest of the evening, in between fixing dinner and the general household 'stuff' reading. I finished the book last night. Some 428 pages I believe. Can you tell that I like to read???
First let me say that even though I have watched shows about the cold ones I have never read a story about one. At least not to my recollection. But The Doodlebug really wants to read this book and she knows there is a movie coming out soon that is based on it. This meant that I signed on to read it before her just to make sure it was okay. While there were some intense moments, I think the book will be fine. I mean, we've read and watched Harry Potter, so we've dealt with the supernatural before as well as a little bit of violence.
What I didn't expect though was to enjoy the story. I'm not going to give anything away, in case you are considering reading it yourself. But I will say that it was entertaining and I couldn't wait to see just how the story would end. Right now I have the next book in the series waiting on my night stand. I am also in the process of trying to study for my first exam in Biology so I am only reading a few pages when I feel like I need a break from non polar covalent bonds and defining what an organism is. But I am enjoying the chance to sit and read something aside from a textbook. The escape has been nice. Although The UIC just shook his head each time he saw me reading the book last night. He knows how much I love to read...
So what about you? Read anything lately that really held your attention? Do you ever find yourself (or have you found yourself) reading material that your not sure if appropriate for your child, only to find yourself enjoying the story? The Doodlebug has only 5 pages left in The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants. She can't wait to start reading Twilight. I think it will be a good choice for her since she has to read 1050 pages before October 10th for her reading class.
Friday, September 5, 2008
Thursday, September 4, 2008
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
See, I'm back in school. Not that that's new. But I'm taking two science courses right now and I'm having a hard time finding balance. I find that I spend most of my spare time trying to read ahead. In one class we are dealing with a lot of mathematical equations. In the other, I feel like the Professor is speaking Greek at least three-fourths of the time. I go to campus, an hour away, four days a week. Then two nights a week I attend a satellite campus in my hometown. My days are usually filled with rushing to take The Doodlebug to school, then getting myself to campus and to class, trying to study after driving back home. I study in the car rider line at her school in the afternoon - which sometimes is where I get my best 'thinking' done because it is quiet. Then we rush home and I prepare our family's dinner while she does her homework. We try to have dinner together as a family on the weeknights that I don't have class, but it always feels rushed.
I know that I should utilize my crock pot more. I know that I need to delegate more to The UIC and The Doodlebug, but to be honest, maintaining the house isn't the problem. It's my inner struggle and wanting to succeed at school and wanting to be this incredible Mom who exists only in my head.
So my question for you on this flip-flopped Works For Me Wednesday is ... how can we have it all? Where do you decide to be a slacker and where do you decide to be superwoman? Please leave me a comment - if only to let me know that I'm not alone :) And check out the other dilemnas facing other bloggers over at Rocks In My Dryer.
Monday, September 1, 2008
Friday I received a letter from the admissions office at school and I have to go by there in the morning to get this form to be completed and then hunt down my advisor, someone that I have never actually met face to face, then return this form to the admissions office. I am not happy about this. But by this time tomorrow night, it will all be over and done.
Today The Doodlebug and I went out to purchase several notebooks so that we could organize her school supplies a little bit better. A lot of money later, I think things might work out a little bit better for her. As a side note, Target has marked all of their school supplies 30% off, so now is the time to start stocking up on spiral bound notebooks and packages of notebook paper.
Astronomy isn't as bad as I thought it was going to be. My biology class...well I'm still not sure. I was able to pull up the paperwork for this week's lab. There are 9 pages of questions. I'm hoping that my table partners are a little more enthusiastic about that than I am. At least this will be the last of the actual science classes that I will have to take. The others at least will teach me how to teach the subject.
In other words, it's been a boring three day weekend. Hope the week is better.